
Photograph from New York Public Library Collection
“THERE WAS A CHILD WENT FORTH EVERY DAY,
And the first object he looked upon and received with wonder or
pity or love or dread, that object he became,
And that object became part of him for the day or a certain part of
the day . . . or for many years or stretching cycles of years.”
Leaves of Grass, The First (1855) Edition, Walt Witman
In the still, silken silence of the night, I walk the Brooklyn streets of my childhood. In mornings filled with filtered light and bird song, I travel the byways of old dreams and the highways of an even older faith.
Having been born in the mystical world of Brooklyn with its fortunate neighboring to magical Manhattan, I am hugely blessed. ”The Center of the Universe,” Mayor Lindsey called it. He was including my entire universe of five boroughs, a heart-centered place filled with multi-hued peoples, uncounted languages, ubiquitous churches, restaurants as bland as The Green Tea Room and as chili-pepper vibrant as the La Fonda del Sol.
I remember the parades: Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Easter. Easter was the best back in those days when everyone dressed up and hats were the thing. People watching was as much fun as parade watching. How vivid still is that one woman with two standard poodles. She and both her dogs wore matching yellow-straw hats, each with a garden of cloth flowers in pink and white.
Oh, and the majesty and grandeur of the Brooklyn Bridge at dusk and the amazing day-by-day progress of the Verrazano-Narrows Bridge during the years of its construction. There were people who lost their homes for the sake of space to build that bridge. Despite the displacement it caused, I liked the Verrazano. I didn’t love it though, not the way I loved the Brooklyn Bridge. I loved Cannonball Park too and walking along Shore Road and – in Manhattan – Battery Park. Central Park held more delights than I could count. When I was seven, my elder sister, Theresa Margaret, took me boating on the lake there. I thought it an adventure. She impressed me with her rowing and steering abilities, skills I hadn’t know she possessed. When I got older, I would go into the city (Manhattan) with friends. We’d rent bikes and bike Central Park’s many paths. The end-of-the-day exhaustion was profound and wonderful. As a young model, I posed under and on some of the grey-stone bridges there.
I can still remember how clearly the church bells in Brooklyn sounded on icy cold days. Mostly we went to the Roman Catholic Church, St. Pat’s, on 95th and 5th in Brooklyn, but sometimes we went to the Eastern Catholic Church, Our Lady of Lebanon. My father was Greek Orthodox, so there were occasional visits to one of those churches as well. The Eastern rites seemed arcane to me, but the beauty of the icons painted on the walls and their ancient history is something that remains with me. I remember visits to Manhattan and St. Patrick’s Cathedral. In my childish innocence, when I wasn’t dreaming of becoming a nun, I dared to dream I’d get married there one day. I suppose it was a possibility. The church I liked just as much, but for different reasons, was Trinity Church. I found its connection to early American history fascinating, especially as it sat modestly right there in the middle of the world’s great, modern financial capital.
When I look back, I think there must have been something in the air or the water because pizza, and pasta, and baked stuffed-clams never taste the same anywhere else. So far in my experience, some foods are not available except at home, like zeppoli. How wonderful were the zeppoli, hot, voluptuous bursts of deep fried pizza-dough dusted with powdered sugar. And when I think about it, neither knishes nor hot dogs have ever seemed so tasty or so tempting. Shotzkin’s knishes are a thing of the past even for those in Brooklyn today.
I remember my mother and her intrepid trips into to Manhattan’s theatre and financial districts, and my grandmother who was afraid to go out at all. I remember my Aunt Yvonne who always said the Lebanese were the Irish of the Middle East, presumably because of the internecine conflict. And I remember the Irish, mostly fair and hardy and sometimes amazingly carrot-topped. We all wore green on St. Paddy’s Day, Irish or not. I remember my father and his love of ouzo and cigarettes, both of which I found shocking.
There were trips to Staten Island too, often by ferry for five cents each way. We had a favorite Chinese restaurant on Highland Boulevard. I had my first shrimp toast there. Up on a hill – just where, I don’t know – there was a Tibetan Monastery, which is where I was first introduced Buddhism and to the Tibetan Book of the Dead. We’d go to the beach on Staten Island in the summer. In high school, there were beach parties at night, attended with my first love, George.
Memories like so much in life are mixed blessings: They make us strong and break our hearts with the sweetness of people, places, and traditions gone and irretrievable. But every morning a new day dawns and we take our joy where we find it. It is, as our young today say, “it’s all good!”











